There is nothing you need to worry about later.
There’s a phrase I’ve heard a lot this month from a lot of people and yes, if I’m honest, I’ve caught myself saying it a couple of of times too. It’s a bit of a throw-away phrase really which we use when we’re putting something off:
“We’ll [I’ll / let’s / why don't we] worry about that later”
When we say that, we’re setting ourselves up to experience whatever "that" is as some kind of problem that we need to (and will) worry about or find more difficult that we need to. In other words, programming yourself for stress.
How would it be if you didn't do that? What if you programmed yourself to find life easier? Might be good, eh?
So this month, pay attention to what you're saying to yourself (how you’re programming yourself) and find a way to do it that’s more helpful to you and others. When you find yourself saying “I’ll worry about that later” why not change the thought to “I’ll deal with that effortlessly [happily / easily / etc] later”. It’ll make a difference to your day.
Here’s to your success.
Dave
PS. Keep going with this one. In a month’s time you’ll have created a new habit where your first thought will be the positive one.
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